Awful Curly Hair Problem?

i do almost the same exact thing but my waves stay nice all day only in dry *** heat i need to rewet it a lil umm just condition and comb your hair regular in the shower then rinse not upside down then when u get out the shower use leave in conditioner first then anti frizz then the gel i use clear protein gel its amazing easy to wash out then put ur head upside down and comb and let it semi dry for a few mins in the bun perfecto !!!!!