Should I Ask Her Out Or Distance Myself? (10 points)?

im a guy, 30. when i was in high school, i was a skinny, nerdy looking kid, didn't have too many friends but at the same time, but the friends i did have i tried to keep close. when i was going thru college, there was a girl just like the girl you're describing, to a T. this girl uses people. plain and simple. if she calls you it's because she's bored or something else - you are at the bottom of her food chain. if she's been ignoring you, she leaves when her friends come around. a real friend sticks with you and a real girlfriend would stay with you all the time, period. i think you should put this girl, and i don't care how cute and/or popular she is, at the bottom of YOUR list. she will bring you nothing but heartache. just treat her the same she treats you -she should treat you better then you treat her and now im older i look good and would like to show the girl how I look now